Wicked II and more

Anon 8, Jan 25 2018, via PM, with permission of author

My stories tend to be a milder than some others, as I tended to stick only with people I knew. Many of my issues had to do with being a volunteer then vendor.

As a volunteer at Wicked !!, when it was still at the convention center, we were promised free entry and food, as well as a locked “staff only” space, which at the time I was ok with. Come the day of, there was no food available at the event AT ALL as the food vendor never got the permits needed (or didn’t know they needed specific permits. Oddly, they were already in the food prep location and had put signage up before being told they couldn’t work.) By the end of the day I was fading and the only reason I didn’t pass out was because one of my vendor friends saw me looking very pale and fed me pizza he had left over from feeding his crew. Additionally, once Voltaire showed up, we were kicked out of the “green room”, aka, the “staff only” space, for a few hours. You know, the space with all of our personal stuff in it. So that was lovely.

Fast forward to Wicked’s first year at the Doubletree (I believe it was 2009 (Wicked year 4), the chocolate factory theme). At this point I was vending with friends. A supposed perk of our location was that it was a room that would be locked at night, keeping our wares safe once vending hours were over, allowing us to enjoy the evening’s parties and relax after a long day. Partway through one of the days it was asked if WE (the vendors as a whole, hence to collective “we”) would mind if a Rocky Horror shadowcast could perform in the space after vending hours were over. There was a resounding “no”, as that would mean the room would be left open and unlocked past vending hours. Having the room open meant that all of us vendors in the room who did not feel safe leaving our items left out (i.e. – everyone who couldn’t pack their shit up and bring it up to their hotel room) had to stay in the room HOURS after we were supposed to be able to leave.
Word came down from on high about an hour before vending hours were supposed to end that the Rocky Horror shadowcast would be happening in our vending room. Complaints to Jeff about this security issue fell on deaf ears. As he said it “That is the only space we have available for it”. This completely went against the vendor agreement which stated that vending rooms which could be locked would be locked at the end of vending hours. When the shadowcast people came in, they tried to move vendor items and tables out of the way to create a larger performance and audience space. Meaning ALL vendors had to stay to ensure their displays wouldn’t be moved. Any and all complaints never amounted to anything. Us vendors never received even an apology for a situation we never should have been put in in the first place, as per our signed vendor agreements.

These last ones do not have to do with Jeff himself, but with his laughably named “security” staff. If someone is going to run a large event with many moving parts he should hire people who wouldn’t take advantage of their position.
At the Doubletree, a friend of mine was approached by someone on security staff while waiting for the elevator. He mentioned that the elevator was backed up and would take a while due to the amount of people using it. Luckily he knew a ~secret~ staircase, the “security only” staircase, because he was security, and he could show it to her. He expounded on and on about how ~lucky~ she was he found her and that she was ~allowed~ to use this (publicly accessible but admittedly out of the way) staircase. He made numerous remarks about her being so lucky, and thinly veiled hints about if they wanted to fool around there no one would catch them (“unless you’re into that”), due to how remote and unused the staircase was. She got up the staircase and back into more populated space, then avoided that area for the rest of con, fearing the worst. Because nothing physical happened, she did not report it. But really, who could she report it to? Security? Yeah, right.

An issue personally occurred to me at one of the last Wicked Faires at the Doubletree (the years blend together after a while). I had gotten to know quite many people who visited both WF and many other related events in the NJ/Philly area. One of these was a man named Chris (known as Draven Kane in the scene world). At this point he was a part of the Wicked Faire security team. We were acquaintances but nothing more, seeing each other at events and talking about fairly superficial stuff. He knew I was monogamous and in a relationship, and did not “play” with anyone else nor did I appreciate physical advances from other people without spoken mutual consent. Regardless he persisted to put down my “monotonous” relationship. At one point I was taking a rare short break from being at my vending table. I was sitting on a stone planter wall on the ground floor under the staircase (a heavily traveled and populated area) talking with a friend. I notice at the last minute Chris making a beeline towards me. He scoops me off the wall, plops me over his shoulder, and starts spanking my ass COMPLETELY without my consent. I told him, loudly, to put me down. He just laughed and continued to spank my ass. I then yelled “I DID NOT CONSENT TO THIS”. The ensuing silence from the rest of the crowd around us was palpable. He slowly let me down to my feet. I was LIVID! And I told him so, loudly and in no uncertain terms. Still livid, I went outside to have a cigarette and calm my nerves. At this point I headed back to to my table. I did report his behavior to Spawn, who I believed was the head of security at that time, hoping something would happen. Nothing did. Of course it didn’t.


It was then that we decided that was the last Wicked Faire we’d ever go to. Crowds were dwindling, patrons weren’t shopping as much as they were before, and the sense of safety that had been built in previous years was gone. Since then I tell everyone I know and meet to stay away from his events or, if they really do want to go, to be hyperaware and vigilant. What was once a safe and welcoming space had degraded into an exploitative event full of predators and no support.


With apologies to the author, I am adding three images below. Images are screencaps from a comment on JM's post calling for volunteers, Jan 23rd (If I recall the date properly). The comment below this post prompted the posting. Name has not be covered, since he is named above. 


 "Tom may have misunderstood you and did not realize you were just complimenting him and being friendly."
  "Gods know that my being friendly has been misunderstood many times and I have been accused of things, and in those situations, I was never asked for my side of what happened. So think about this from the angle of someone just reported to you that one of your people made this person feel uncomfortable and handle this complaint as such. ... 
Now if I were asked to come back to JME as security would I? Yes, I would as long as everything that I was offered was put in writing and signed by Jeff himself..."


"... if you will have me and I can take off from work I will gladly resume my post as security, and if you need any references just check with derpycon. ..."

Personal note: I'm certain I was at the WF that Anon 8 mentions in regard to the consent violation. In fact, this sparks a memory, and I will confirm the truth of her story as she describes above. 


Further update, Jan 28, via message:

By Draven Kane you mean Gilpatrick Jose Matos aka Draven Kane, an alias he took when he decided to get involved in security at kink events after being fired as a bartender for a racial hate crime intimidating a girl for having a black boyfriend. (link included http://www.nj.com/cumberland/index.ssf/2009/09/millville_police_charge_four_p.html )

Then after insinuating himself in with JME and Derpy con used that position to transport underaged girls across state lines to have sex with them, that Draven Kane. One who, oddly enough just like Snake Eyes is being investigated for his Stolen Valor claims of having been a US soldier in order to get security jobs and scam housing from fellow vets? Yeah, He's still working Con security for Derpy and a few others. Yeah Jeff was made aware of ALL of this as far back as GKE 1 at least and he did not think to mention it when he glowingly recommended him for work with my own company. an action which I deeply regret and wish I had not trusted Jeff's word on his background. 

24 comments:

  1. In response to the Draven Kane comment.
    I worked as security with Spawn and it was reported by me and others of Draven's conduct and use of the freight elevator. Draven was striped of his security status by Saturday afternoon and was no longer able to hold a staff position at any future events. Spawn and myself wanted him thrown out of the event but the powers that be (JME) can only make those decisions.
    I'm sorry this had happened to you.
    I took my job very seriously and I know Spawn did as well. This is one of the many reasons neither of us attend or work the event anymore.

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    1. Hi Dave, I added some information above that you might find interesting. I don't doubt your statement at all, so please don't take it that way.

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  2. In my opinion Draven isn't the type of person that can be trusted with any kind of authority because he puts his own interests first, he was and is an opportunist. It is unfortunate that the entire security team is getting a bad reputation due to one bad apple. Keep in mind that even though security is there they are not police. We did the best we could with the information given and still had to work under the rules of (JME).

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    1. As someone who worked as volunteer security a couple of times for Wicked, I realize that there are plenty of good people who have been on that team. I firmly believe there is more than *one* bad apple, but the majority of security staff did what they could to make a safe event.

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  3. Hi there, I just wanted to pop in and apologize for my part in the WF4 RHPS fiasco. Specifically, I was with the shadowcast in question; if you recall the Willy Wonka preshow thingy, I was the Wonka. It was never our intention to disrupt or inconvenience vendors in any way, and were as surprised as anyone at the arrangement. In any case, I know it worked out that we as a group were less professional about the situation than we ought to have been, and weren't as respectful of (rightfully) frustrated vendors as we ought to have been. If it's any consolation, we too were frustrated and confused, not only with the need to use an inappropriate performance space but with a raft of inadequacies with the facilities and equipment we needed to perform and had been told would be available.

    I've never fully understood how it is that an organization which exists solely to run events could be so consistently and thoroughly incompetent writing an event schedule, and now I suppose I'll never need to.

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    1. I don't think anyone blames people other than Jeff for screwing over vendors and performers.

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  4. I can gladly point to at LEAST three people sexually assaulted by Kane. The man’s a danger.

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    1. *sigh*
      It's so frustrating when an event runner knows someone is bad news and still gives that person power.

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    2. He's well known even into the Ohio burlesque community as a menace. He's been fired from at least 3 separately run events of varying varieties (Jeff Mach's events, Tanoshiicon in PA and Derpycon in NJ, to name just the recent ones). Derpycon fired him for sexually harassing a minor in 2018 when he was head of security, and even had it posted on their publicly viewable Facebook page under the reviews section (which of course they took down for potential legal reasons, because the con chair knew what Gilpatrick Matos was like).

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  5. In my personal experiences, he cannot be trusted. On multiple occasions he completely disregarded protocol, as well as insinuating that monogamy is stupid and I'm stupid in believing in it, as well as stupid for believing any male would be able to do such a thing.

    He touched me multiple times in ways that "friends" do not touch other "friends." My s/o at the time had to physically remove draven hands off of me on multiple occasions, and not only at wicked. Whenever he was at an event that I was, i immediately stood next to the most intimidating person I could, even though I can defend myself. I did not trust him to be alone in a room with me.

    I wish Skype still had our previous conversations, as well as another social media site. I've done everything I can to keep others from falling victim to him. He's definitely a sick guy. He can't be trusted with any kind of authority as his immediate response is to flaunt it and misuse it for his own benefit.

    The 3rd year I went to wicked, I did not work it after the fiasco that I dealt with the second year I went. However draven was there. I can't recall when it happened (currently fighting the flu and I'm super groggy) but I do recall him being escorted out of the hotel by police, than hearing from a higher up that he got an underaged girl drunk, had sex with her while he had an std. I'm sure there's more to this story, but I did not ask for more details as I was already disgusted by the fact that he could get that low while his fiancee was also in the building. It turns out he was doing alot more stuff behind her back than she knew about.

    He's dangerous, sick, and no one should ever trust him. The fact that he's coming to Jeff's aid just makes this whole situation all the worse.

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  6. Commenting on this as an ex who can relate sadly.
    I sadly went through just about the same thing as others did and I suffer from it to this day. Draven Kane is a vile man indeed and will play victim so that he can make himself feel better and twist whatever story he has to just to get his way. I unfortunately was in a "one-sided" polyamorous relationship with him. I say one sided because that it what I felt. It felt like I wasnt allowed to search for friends or even other potential partners with out him blowing up and getting mad at me. I had to have an old partner and a dear friend come to my aid more than once because of it. He wasnt having it though. The worse thing that he did was meeting and "playing" with other females behind my back without my knowledge. That is where I drew the line and for the fact that I found out from other people really sent me over the edge.
    As far as conventions go, derpy was a horrible mistake for me to get into for security. I am currently trying my hand at a different position to where I can bring my son and my s.o with me to feel even more comfortable. It is honestly sad when people cannot feel comfortable or even safe at conventions or events when things like this happen. I dont want anyone to feel like this at all and I want them to know to that if they see or feel like someone could be "dangerous" or even slightly "off", you turn the other way. Dont even try to confront because it will get messy.

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    1. Also..as far as I know..he isnt a part of Derpy anymore

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    2. Can confirm that he was indeed fired from Derpycon, and other witnesses who knew the victim will and have come out about it on social media outlets before. Can also confirm what Kina Valdis stated above about their relationship, as I along with others witnessed this first hand, as well as the damage it caused to event reputations.

      Seriously, if people want confirmation, I'd say to go talk to the Derpycon staff that used to work for the con prior to the year 2018, because you'll never get the con chair Anthony to publicly announce anything, and Derpycon seems to have a clause that keeps their employees and volunteer quiet, akin to an NDA of sorts.

      Not sketchy at all.

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    3. Gilpatrick Matos (Draven's real name) claims to be a MANAGER at a strip club called JustEnuff Cabaret. I have a hard time believing that's true, but I'd highly recommend that anyone who has friends that are in Philly, especially as kinsters, dom(mes), exotic dancers and so on warn your friends and to have them warn their strip club management to be on the lookout for this guy, because he's not the kind of guy who is going to get hired anywhere else. With a background check, they'd toss him.

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  7. I was there for kina and another of his play partners as I was there to pickup the pieces he left behind. Everything she says is true

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  8. Bruh, even Jeff Mach says Gilpatrick isn't welcome at events anymore. When even the guy this blog was started about can't stand the dude in this specific article, you know you've screwed up.

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  9. I have heard he went to jail due to child support that he has NEVER paid though he claims XD he soon got out apparently

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    1. Kina Valdis: Can you provide some proof of this?

      To the blog admin Brenna: Why have there not been any updates about relevant subjects, such as the predators still out there in the convention circuit?

      I know multiple people that have submitted content to this site about White Elephant Burlesque and their sister troupe Cosplay Burlesque (Holly Ween runs CB, and she's been in WE for years with Esmerelda Mae, Oliver Swisskey and more.), the rapists and stalkers those troupes protected and continue to protect, Wyck, Gilpatrick Matos (aka. Draven Kane) and more.

      Anyone in the scene knows that Jeff Mach is essentially finished by this point because his reputation is so tarnished.

      So, could we please get some updates about the other groups running around that people aren't as aware of? That's extremely important, especially before something else potentially happens to someone else.

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    2. I apologize. Life got complicated.

      Please feel free to send me all information.

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    3. Information was resent months ago. Still no sign of updates. =(

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    4. Info has been present. Sent months ago.

      Still no sign of updates. =(

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    5. I'm going to be going through my emails over the next few weeks and will be compiling posts. So sorry!

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