The best playground in the world is the one where a person, usually so small in comparison that they need to reach way way up to do it, takes him by the hand and leads him over to come and play.
In other words, the playground matters very little..,.compared to the players.
I don’t build physical playgrounds; I build events. And if you want to try to have a great event, I believe you should try to have events which encourage wonderful people. And don’t be afraid of seeming corny or silly – sure “wonderful people” sounds more like a description for a kid’s show than a kink event. I don’t care; the phrasing works. Praise kindness and model it in your own actions. Value respect. Fight for safety even when it’s very hard to know how to make a space “safe”. Discourage hateful people. Turn down their money; urge them to take their business elsewhere.
Let me give you, then, my big secret, the formula, the recipe for a great event:
1. Attract amazing people and try to treat them well.Reread that... "Attract amazing people and try to treat them well."
2. That’s it.
Jeff Mach Events
Treat. Them. Well.